There are quite a number of reasons that make you wonder whether you are wasting your time chasing him. These are:

  1. When you are waiting for his text 3 hours later.
  2. When you are dressed and ready to leave the house but he cancels plans the last minute.
  3. When he ignores your messages but is quick to view your story and likes your photos.

If you are in such a situation where it seems to you that you are wasting your time chasing him then you definitely are.

You are focused on the future and that’s why you are holding onto the wrong person.

Your wish is to see him come around at long last.

Your wish is that he responds to your messages.

Your wish is that he requests you out for dinner.

Your desire is that he transforms his habits and that is where we all make mistakes.

How he treats you right now is just an indication of how he will treat you tomorrow.

Nevertheless, you cannot foretell the future, that’s the reality. You cannot tell whether he will realize his mistakes and change for the better.

To you, uncertainty is a good thing. You are hopeful. However, you need to refrain from such thoughts when it comes to him.

You shouldn’t be hopeful for the future since you don’t know what it will bring. Don’t be optimistic about what the future holds.

Focus on how he’s treating you today instead of focusing on how he will treat you in the future.

You should pay attention to how you are feeling at the moment.

If that person makes you question your worth and what you deserve and always feel depressed and disappointed, its time you stop chasing him because to him you’re nothing.

Don’t waste your time chasing someone who doesn’t acknowledge you. Don’t even think they will one day change and start giving you all the attention that you deserve.

He will not treat you differently. Refrain from forgiving him all the time. Don’t be a party to his stupidity coz he will get used to it and will always call or text you to make things right again.

How he will treat you tomorrow is not a concern. Your concern should be how he is treating you today.

If you always feel bad and he is the reason why then you need to stop chasing him. he is wasting your time and taking advantage of your situation.