Relationships are challenging, whether it is with your family, your friends, your children, your romantic partner, or your co-workers. Our relationships with other people don’t always go as smoothly as we wish they would, and often we find ourselves in places we never thought we’d be.

Sometimes our relationships in real life don’t match how we think they should be in our heads, and this can lead to discontent and displeasure with ourselves and other people. We might find that our discontent leads us to messy breakups, fights with our partner, or into other situations where we never thought we’d be.

It’s important to find a balance between how you want things to be and how they are. You and your partner and the relationship you have isn’t perfect, but it is worth investing in. Marriage requires a conscious effort by both parties in order to make it work. You have to fully invest in your relationship and go through some difficult times in order to see the fruits of your labors.

We can often fall back into our old relationship habits, even when we set out with the best of intentions. With your partner you can dedicate yourselves to growing your relationship in the right direction by fostering trust, respect, love, and harmony.

If you are looking for a relationship that is loving and connected, relationship counselling is one way to help a relationship get back on its feet. Having a third party help you see each other in a new light can help bring back the spark to your relationship faster than ever. This is our purpose!

Elaine Allen